Throwback Thursday!


just an old flick of myself  😀

See this right here kind of makes me reconsider my choice on being natural, I mean I like curly hair, but I LOVE straight hair but hate the flatness and maintaining of straight hair. I want the volume of curly hair but I hate the detangling process.  :/

I mean I want the ease of relaxed hair without the dependency that it brings

I’m torn.

Have any of you natural ladies out there had this issue? If so please tell me what you think I should do.

Ugh to relax or not to relax…that is the question.

So recently I have been fluttering in my resolve to stay natural. Yes I said it, I have been getting the strongest urges to go back to relaxing my hair. I mean I love seeing my cute little curls coming in but I hate hate hate the long ass drawnout detangling sessions.

I’m at a point in my hair journey where I could go either way. With the natural route I would have to continue cutting off relaxed ends bit by bit and I think that would take a whole year for all of my relaxed parts to be gone.


I could continue to tex-lax and retain a massive amount of length but face a lifetime of dependency on relaxing


Just for my sake which style do you think fits my face better?

I need help.